The Shannon Chronicles

December 4, 2007

Bull SHIT….

Filed under: Army Life, Living Alone, Military Families — by shannonchronicles @ 5:36 pm

Check out this article:  In icy Alaska, U.S. Army can be sued over fall

Here’s the great quote of the piece:

An injured woman who slipped in an Alaskan parking lot can sue the federal government for failing to remove snow and ice, a U.S. Court of Appeals ruled on Monday.

Carol Bolt has been permanently disabled since April 1999, when she broke her ankle outside her U.S. Army apartment in Fort Wainwright, Alaska, where winter temperatures fall to as low as -65 F degrees (-54 C).

[RANT-ON]
HERE is the kicker for those of us who have LIVED in Alaska’s interior…IF SHE LIVED ON BASE IT WAS HER RESPONSIBILITY TO KEEP HER SIDEWALKS AND DRIVE CLEAR! So if she slipped it was HER FAULT for not clearing the snow!!

You know how many freaking hours I have shoveled that fucking white shit? FOUR LONG YEARS of shoveling it. Had a brand new baby and a toddler the last two years we lived on base – and left the front door open where I could see them in the little mud room while I tried to keep the sidewalk and drive clear when we’d get five feet of snow in an evening. Yeah FUN – all the while husband was gone being a soldier and I not only raised two babies, I shoveled snow and worked 50 hours a week mostly ALONE. And this lazy ass doesn’t clear her walk and now it’s the government’s job to clear the sidewalks and she gets a freaking payday too?

I’m glad my husband is retiring – the shit that is taking over and the freaking suits allowing them to make me sick.

[/RANT-OFF]…..

December 2, 2007

Taggers Should be Shot

Filed under: Muscle Cars — by shannonchronicles @ 10:29 pm

Ok, so maybe not shot, but I wouldn’t lose sleep over these latest bastards getting a good old fashioned ass-kicking.

Last year (ironically, also in November), I had my first run-in with Taggers. You can read the story as it unfolded:

I was pretty pleased with not only our local police department’s response, but also the parents who stepped up to make sure their youngsters learned a lesson out of it all.

Now, I’ve mentioned my mid-life crisis car on here before. I sold my muscle car back in 1998 when husband was deployed to the middle east the first time after we were married. We needed the money and my old girl was just sitting in Alabama while we were in Virginia with orders to move to Alaska. It broke my heart to sell her, but at the time, I didn’t have much choice.

So, in August of 2006 when husband talked me into driving a new Mustang GT, I knew better than getting behind the wheel. I knew once I drove that car I’d be in love – and of course, a quick trip up the road and back was enough to convince me this was MY mid-life crisis car heh heh. Thanks to 0% interest courtesty of Ford – we drove her home that afternoon.

Since then, I’ve splurged and had a new stripe kit put on her and hood pins. I’m hoping to get a job in the next year so I can put a $1400 upgrade kit on her (cold air intake, new exhaust system and a computer chip that will bump the horsepower up to around 330) and a new set of rims I have my heart set on. It’s been a real example of control with the extra moola from the deployment not to splurge while husband has been gone heh heh, but I’ve been good and only spent money on oil changes and the hood pins and stripe kit :) . Here’s a pic I took back in June:

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So, November 17th started out like most mornings. I let our dogs out, started some coffee and fixed my babies some breakfast. I finally sit down around 8:15 to enjoy my first cup of coffee when someone comes up on my porch and rings my doorbell. I think it’s probably someone trying to sell something, so I ignore it. Again, they ring the doorbell and the dogs bark like fools. I keep thinking, “Damn, it’s too early in the morning people. I’m still in my PJs and I’m not answering the door. GO AWAY.” Again, they ring the bell…and now I’m ready to tell someone to get off my damn porch – and not in a nice way heh heh.

I get my big dogs outside and go to the door. I’m shocked to see my across the street neighbor standing there. She’s never been ugly to us – but she’s always been stand-off-ish, which is fine with me. Some days she’ll wave when she goes by, some days she won’t. We’ve been here five years and I finally stopped waving regularly after the first couple of months we lived here – never knowing if she’d bother to wave or not be in a great mood and glare lol.

Anyhow, I open the door and she says, “I’m sorry to tell you this, but the bastards got your car last night.”

I said, “OH NO. You’re shittin’ me!”

She says, “I wish I was, but when I got up this morning and looked out – it was the first thing I saw. I knew you’d want to know and call the police.”

I told her I really appreciated her coming over and telling me. And, of course between the stress of husband about to come home and some freakin’ punks SPRAY PAINTING my car, the tears well up. I told her I sure didn’t understand why someone would do this. She said she didn’t either and – she actually gave me a hug. She was so nice to me that morning and I really do appreciate her coming over and letting me know.

I came back in the house and called the police. Just like last year – they were here in minutes. The two officers were so nice and asked if I’d had any problems since yelling at the two boys aggravating a neighbor’s dog. One of the officers was the one who spoke to me a few months back about them. I told him I hadn’t seen them since that day and I’d not seen anything odd. At the time, I was the only car that had been reported, but while they were taking the info from my license and getting the VIN off my car, they got word over the radio of another car that had been tagged about a block away.

I hate for anyone else to have gotten their property damaged too, but at the same time, I was a bit relieved. At least I knew it was a random thing and someone wasn’t targeting our house. On Halloween night, the postal box that sits in the far corner of our yard was spray painted with “JENA 16.” The Post Office sent someone out to replace it because they were afraid it might be in reference to the Jena thing in Louisiana. I have an Alabama flag (and NO it is not the “stars and bars”) hanging from my rear view mirror and my tag has a reference to Alabama. The man replacing the postal box had wondered if it might be due to that. Then to have my car tagged a few weeks later and mine be the only one was making me nervous. It looks like now though that it was a random act.

Here’s a picture of my car after it was sprayed:

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I told the policemen I was going to run it up to Ford and see what they suggested. He said he hoped they’d know of something to get it off, but most likely they’d have to repaint it.

It’s now about 9 in the morning and the babies and I are going to Ford. I get up there and park at the service department and go in to see if the guy who set up the work they did on the stripes and all was there. The other gentleman who works in service said he wasn’t there, but asked if he could help me. I told him to look out the door and see what he thought. All he said was, “OH NO….”

I said, “Yep, sucks doesn’t it? But, I didn’t want to let it sit all weekend…thought maybe it would make it worse.”

He said once it dried, it was on there and he didn’t think he could do anything with it. He said to hang on and let him call someone… By now, everyone from the service department was looking at it and shaking their heads and I’m trying to hide tears with my sun glasses on. The mechanic who usually works on my car walked in and said he sure was sorry…

I have to put a plug in here for our local Ford dealership. Their service department is excellent – and EVERYONE who works there is absolutely awesome!

About that time, a lady who is pretty new to Ford walked in and said, “It’s wiping right off! Come see!”

I about fell out of my chair. I couldn’t believe it. She said she thought if this stuff called D-TAR would get road tar off, it might just work on spray paint. She said she figured it wouldn’t hurt to at least try it. And, sure enough – it wiped right off! You would have thought it was shoe polish or something with the way it wiped off after she sprayed the D-TAR stuff on it.

WHEW!!!

Here’s a pic of it after we got home from Ford and running it through the car wash afterwards:

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For the next ten days or so, I stayed up late worrying they’d come back. I locked the glass door and left our wood door open. Dakota would lay in front of the door and bark any time anyone walked by. I figured the bastards would ride by and see the spray paint removed so quickly and decide to either key the doors or bust out the windows – or both.

I stopped in to my regular gas station today to fill up the car and the lady in there asked if I knew Ann who worked there. I told her I sure did. She said that Ann’s husband’s truck got tagged last night and the police told her that their vehicle was the third one hit in the last month. The lady told Ann that mine was the first one – and told her how I’d taken it up to Ford and they were able to get it off for me. So hopefully, Ann was able to get the spray paint off their truck too. I usually stop and get a soda every day before I pick up the babies from school, so I’ll see her tomorrow and find out for sure.

Hopefully the police will find out who is doing this soon. Usually someone dumb enough to damage other folks’ property is dumb enough to brag about it too. It’s a small town and word travels fast heh heh.

December 1, 2007

Preparing for the Return

Filed under: Army Life, Marriage, Parenting — by shannonchronicles @ 9:20 am

As this deployment finally nears its end, the preparations will begin in earnest today. I’ve deliberately put off the major house cleaning until this weekend. There are several reasons I decided to wait until almost the last minute. The main reason being, the last two weeks seem to always be the hardest for me. I go from being so excited about seeing him again that it feels as if my heart might explode from beating so hard – to being either short tempered (road rage anyone?) or wanting to cry. The days seem to go from twenty-four hours to seventy-two. Each day is longer than the last and feels as though they may never end. So, putting off the spring cleaning will hopefully help make the weekend go by a lot faster. And, with two children, dogs and a cat – hopefully I’ll only have to vacuum the stairs once heh heh.

Big plans for today though. We’re getting laundry done early so I can take down the living room curtains and wash them. While they are in the wash, I’ll clean the windows – and do a project I’ve been putting off for oh – about a year lol. I’m going to get my trusty caulk gun out and caulk around the window frames. With our house being almost 100 years old, the cold comes right in around the wood trim. Figure while I have the curtains down, it’d be the perfect time finally get around to that caulking job I’ve been procrastinating on.

Husband called last week and the babies and I knew it would be the last time he was able to call. On one hand, we were excited to know we were slowly getting closer to his return, but on the other – not hearing from him is hard.

When husband came home the last time, daughter had done so great through the entire year. We all held it together as best we could and tried to go through the motions of normal life even on the days when we didn’t much want to. The day of his return finally arrived. When the group walked in and daughter saw her Dad, she sat down in the chair, put her face in her little hands and just sobbed. Daughter isn’t much of a crier, so to see her just completely let go of everything she’d held in was hard. And, I felt pretty helpless…all I could do is tell her it was ok, he’s finally home now and we can all take a deep breath…

So, when daughter was fighting tears on the phone with him, I knew she was finally taking that deep breath and letting some of “it” come to the surface. She’s like her Dad and finds it easy to just stuff emotions and not quite deal with them in the moment. When I got back on the phone with husband he was pretty worried about her. I tried to reassure him that it was just the way it works and she’d be ok.

Later that evening, she’d come back downstairs after going to bed and her eyes were all red. She said she didn’t know why she was crying. She sat down in the living room and we had a good talk. I told her it was just what happens when the deployment starts coming to an end. While you’re so excited about the reunion, I guess it allows all the other emotions you’ve felt over the last 15 months to come to the surface too. At month two, five, nine etc. you are focusing on the day to day. You have school work or an upcoming holiday or whatever is going on to focus your mind and energy on. When you near the end though, your mind starts focusing on seeing him again – what you’ll do on the weekends with him home, him being able to hear about your day at school etc. and all that thinking brings other emotions with it. While you focus on seeing him again, some of the sadness from everything he’s missed seems to tag along for the ride. So, if you feel like crying, go ahead! It’s completely normal and might even make you feel better.

Well, better get busy this morning. I’ve got another post or two simmering that I’m going to try to get to later on this afternoon when I take a break from the cleaning. Hope you all have a good weekend!

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